no. i am not okay. i feel broken. sad. empty. a piece of me is and forever will be gone. i am not alone in my experience but that doesn’t and can’t take away from how i feel or how i am dealing with the loss.
i am devastated.
and that has to be okay.
i was so happy to be pregnant. we worked for it. i felt it. that baby was mine.
i saw him. his little spine. his tiny head. baby w. our baby.
he had a heartbeat for almost 11 weeks. he grew as i did.
i’m still shaking. i’m still crying.
i can’t pretend that this doesn’t hurt, that a little piece of my soul isn’t gone. i am not okay.
i will be. i have love and support. i have the most beautiful, caring, loving, hysterical, daughter. we will try again. i will be okay.
but right now, i am not.
I am so sorry my heart aches for you, I know you loved him. I am so so sorry!
I’m so sorry. It will take time, allow yourself that time. And during that time, squeeze your daughter with all of your love and strength. I found it helps.
I am so, so sorry. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
So sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
So painful, so heartbreaking…..no words, just understanding and hugs…
I’m so sorry for your loss. You are a brave, strong woman. I applaud your ability to know yourself and your courage to express what you feel. Continue to take care of yourself and let others take care of you while you are in need. You are loved by many.
I am so sorry for your loss… As I have lost 3 of my own, I can feel your loss, devistation, anger, grief, and all of the millions of emotions that come with a loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts… and if you ever need someone to listen I am always here. Take care of yourself!
I’m sorry, I’m so sorry.
DJ- Oh lady I love you so much and you are truly one of the most beautiful and strong women I know. I have no idea what you are experiencing but I wish I could take it from you. I love you.
My big sister lost 3 of her babies, and I broke down at the sight of someone as tough as nails break down because of absolute heartache. She said she wouldn’t wish this kind of sadness on her worst enemies. I am so sorry about what happened, my heart hurts that you’re going through this right now
Oh Danielle, I’m so sorry. Lifting you up, friend!
I’m so sorry for your loss, I pray time will heal your pain.
I am so. very. sorry.
My thoughts are with you love. While we are all different and experience different things…I have been where you are and I know how hard it is and the pain and sadness it brings… I lost my third child when he was 20 weeks old. I miscarried him, but I still got to hold him and name him and it was all very overwhelming. I still think about Cash all the time. I don’t know why it happened but I always feel like things happen for a reason no matter good or bad. Just know it’s okay to feel whatever you feel and there are lots of us out there who are here to support you.
I am so sorry. It is devastating. Let yourself feel what you need to feel, as long as you need to feel it. And don’t let anyone tell you different. You will be on my mind.
There are no words to take away your pain. I can only say, I too have suffered that loss and you can rest in the fact that God has taken your child into His living arms. Our babies didn’t suffer disappointment, defeat, depression, pain from skinned knees, or any other emotion that cause us to doubt ourselves.
So very sorry for your loss. May the Lord comfort your heart during this time of deep sorrow, as only He can! sending love and hugs.
im so sorry i know how that feels sending *hugs*ur way